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Advanced Mutuality Skills 2025 – November 2025
November 7, 2025 @ 3:00 pm - November 9, 2025 @ 7:00 pm PST
“Mutuality is the poem of one plus one is three.”
INTRODUCTION
Mutuality is the new frontier of spirituality. Gone are the days when we thought we could retreat into solitude—head off to the desert island, or the Himalayan cave—and be immune from relational tensions. Alone, or with others, the new truth is that we are always already living in a vast web of inner and outer relationships—from intimacy with the 37 trillion cells and 38 trillion bacteria populating our body, to our interconnected relationship with the most faraway stars in the universe.
The new path is no longer towards refuge in nothingness, with its promise of immunity from suffering, but towards being and being permeable to everything. All of it. Suffering included. We are realizing it all as our self, on a path of increasingly unconditional relatedness. We are all awakening whole being.
As a pioneering self in this new terrain:
- How are you living as you in this interconnected web?
- What are the discoveries, openings, challenges, obstacles, insights, dead-ends, rough edges and pressure points that are showing up in your relationships—intimate, family, personal, collegial, intrapersonal?
- Have you mastered the dynamics of relationships? Or are you a work in progress, ever deepening and discovering new layers and subtleties in yourself and in others?
- What are the new forms of connection, or pockets of separation, that we can discover in ourselves—together?
- What are these new frontiers of mutuality in Trillium Awakening?
Join our pioneering group to explore this emerging field together, weaving together our collective knowing and insights into a form never before revealed.
COURSE LOGISTICS
Your TA teachers for the AMS 2025 course are Jim Trofatter, Ralf Humphries, and a third teacher to be appointed. We will be joined by three current TA mentors to form the facilitation team.
The course classes start on Friday, 7th November 2025 in North America and Saturday, 8th November in the Asia-Pacific region and Europe.
The course is 9 sessions of 3.5hrs – 4hrs duration each over three consecutive 3-day weekends.
The course will run on Friday, Saturday and Sunday evenings in North America (7th-9th, 14th-16th, 21st-23rd November). In the Asia-Pacific region, it will run Saturday, Sunday and Monday mornings (8th-10th, 15th-17th, 22nd-24th November). It will be Saturday, Sunday, and Monday early morning / night-shift for those in Europe.
The detailed schedules for North America and Asia-Pacific are below. Right click and open in new tab if you want to see an enlarged version. For those in Europe, please calculate your time-zone.
The maximum number of participants is 15. If you’re keen to attend, don’t delay submitting your application.
The AMS course is available to those who:
- have had 2+ years since their initial Whole Being Realization was confirmed by a member of the TA Clarifiers Group
- have been living in their iWBR more than 2+ years ago, but only recently been confirmed
OR
- have attended a Navigating Your Initial Whole Being Realization course.
If you haven’t had a Clarifying Conversation yet, you will need to make an appointment with a Clarifier before the course starts.
The course is a requirement for the Mentor Path in Trillium Awakening. Mentor candidates will be given priority for places.
Mentor candidates should attend all nine classes. In the event of missing a class, then there will be a procedure for reviewing the content of the missed and demonstrating knowledge of the class topics. Missing more than one class will require redoing the AMS course at a later date or submitting a special consideration application.
FEE
SCHEDULE
Facilitator(s)
Ralf Humphries (interning teacher)
RALF HUMPRIES is a midwife of awakening, supporting individuals in the birthing of their whole being self. In this process, the subtle soul-nature is welcomed into full embodiment and increasing love-expression in the world. Ralf’s postnatal support continues to be valuable as these awakened individuals mature through further evolutionary stages of their whole being unfoldment.Ralf first intuited a fundamental, irresolvable paradox at the heart of things in his teens. He mapped the contours and evoked the experience of this paradox throughout a distinguished career of transdisciplinary academic research, conference presentations and peer-reviewed publications, which was followed by five years living as a Buddhist monk in a Theravada forest monastery. In 2013, with the support of Trillium Awakening, he was delighted to discover the ever-present paradox of infinite-in-finite at the core of his embodied nature.In the last eight years, Ralf has worked as a psychotherapy educator and a senior clinician in a residential addiction treatment facility. He currently has a private practice as a therapist, is an interning teacher with Trillium Awakening, and is a Whole-Being Evolution Guide. Ralf lives with his dear one in Melbourne, Australia.
Jim Trofatter (teacher)
Jim Trofatter has been involved with this work since 2004 and became a member of the teacher’s circle in 2014. In his work, he draws on his experience as a trillium awakening teacher, shamanic practitioner, Realization Process teacher, iConscious coach and meditator to help facilitate people on their next step of their life’s journey. Though classically trained as a geneticist, he has now dedicated his full efforts to the promotion and evolution of Trillium Awakening. He is currently hosting the podcast The Three Petals which explores the process of spiritual awakening.https://trilliumawakening.org/profile/jimtrofatter
How to Register
Contact
An application form will be forthcoming. For any questions contact Amy at events@trilliumawakening.org
Payment Options
Costs, payment options and cancellation policies will be forthcoming.
