Tatini Goler

New in July 2024 – Interview with Deborah Boyar

Welcome!
To convey the flavor of my unique teaching style and of what you might experience in our session time together, I am sharing Saniel’s words about me. He has such a gift with words and of capturing and conveying Being essence!
Further down the page I share major influences and a bit of a historical sense of my journey.

I look forward to meeting you!

I offer a free 30 minute “getting-to-know” each other session to feel into if we would be a good match for working together.
Email me to schedule a free introductory session.

About Tatini – by Saniel Bonder

“Tatini Goler has a tremendous healing and awakening gift. She embodies a steady confidence in Being which, through her teaching work, she also effectively helps her students achieve. She transmits a matter-of-fact, no-nonsense, practical self-confidence on material, spiritual and deep emotional levels. Her grounded manifesting power is what in traditional yoga is called a “siddhi,” a quite remarkable and rare capacity. And with her natural concentration on getting to the next step, she finds the simplest ways to help her students make practical adjustments so they can actually live the paradox of being simultaneously human and divine. Tatini’s understanding of systems such as the Enneagram, combined with her reverence for the ultimately indescribable mystery of each person’s unique nature, also makes her an extraordinary teacher and servant of her students’ capacity to manifest and embody their own special gifts in the world.” – Saniel Bonder, founder of Waking Down in Mutuality®, author of Healing the Spirit/Matter Split

Encountering Waking Down in Mutuality / Trillium Awakening in 2005:

Upon reading Saniel’s book “Healing the Spirit/Matter Split”, I immersed myself in the dharma, attended all the events I could, and had my Whole Being Realization 6 month later. I knew right away that I wanted to be a Waking Down teacher to share this most beautiful and most effective path with my fellow seekers and entered the teacher training path. I became a Waking Down / Trillium Awakening teacher in 2008.

Other important elements of my life’s path and inner journey:

Enneagram
34 years of Enneagram study and orienting around the knowledge of my ego’s fixation and the Holy Idea of my type (9 with a 1 wing, 9/5/4 Tritype) has brought deep acceptance of my human self and openings into the nature of ultimate reality. Knowing one’s ego fixation helps eliminate a lot of static in the process of the ongoing unfolding of consciousness as the self.
I incorporate Enneagram type teachings in my Trillium sessions.

Human Design – a joy to know the mechanics of the embodied self
15 years of living in alignment with my human design, I find it a great tool to recognize the simultaneity of the non-dual nature (The Holy Absolute) and the differentiated, mortal, limited nature of the manifest human self.
Our Human Design chart (generated from birth information) gives us incredibly useful information to incorporate on the path to living from unconditioned Essence rather than from conditioned Ego.
Defined centers, channels and gates, serve as solid anchors for consciousness manifesting as the gifts of the unique self. In the field of manifestation where there is no limits, it is incredibly gratifying to know what is my experience to have in this lifetime and to consistently make correct decisions. It brings a deep sense of alignment with Being.
Open centers, channels and gates, can point us powerfully to how we might be conditioned in ways that don’t serve any longer.
I offer Human Design System consulting (5/1 Emotional Projector) as a support to recognize and greenlight all that is YOU.
In Trillium sessions, if desired, I can weave in Human Design knowledge to assist the embodiment process.

Hospice Nurse Aide and Cancer
Since 2017, I have found deepest fulfillment in what feels like dharmic work for me as a Hospice Nurse Aide.  Being in the field of the death transition with patients and their families feels sacred and utterly fulfilling. 
In August 2020 I was diagnosed with Cancer. Being on the Cancer journey has profoundly deepened me into the Mystery of the Paradox of being both, so very mortal and immortal. Exploring the thought realm of terror that arose in facing my own body’s non-existence has vastly deepened my trust in existence and the ultimate unknown.

Awakening as Me in the WE – Circling and Authentic Relating – All things Relational
Since 2021, the practice of Circling / Relatefulnes, a relational presence meditation is deeply fulfilling my heart’s longing to awaken to more of ME in community, in mutuality, in Presence, in WE space. I trained and certified as Focus Circling Facilitator with relateful.com and offer Intro to Circling online meetings upon request.

“If you have come here to help me you are wasting your time, but if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine,
then let us work together.” ~Lilla Watson

Honest Sharing (2023):
Following my interest to keep up-to-date with current healing/embodied awakening modalities, and my great passion for everything relational in combination with a strong inner direction towards Honesty, I discovered Honest Sharing.
The practice of Honest Sharing (by Gopal Norbert Klein) has helped me land ever more solidly in the center of my Human Self in this NOW moment. With this practice I experience healing of remnants of early childhood connection trauma and continued spiritual awakening as I disidentify with ever subtler levels of thought.
I am offering a free intro and practice of this brilliant self-help practice. Feel free to book a 1 hr practice session. Link to online calendar.

And lastly mentioning all the teachings and bodies of work that have influenced me over time and contributed to who I am in this moment:

Being raised Roman Catholic and having rejected the “Church” as a young adult, the first spiritual teaching that touched me deeply as I turned 28, were OSHO’s teachings, specifically the commentaries on Buddhism’s “the light is inside” teachings. For ten years meditations, such as Dynamic, Kundalini, and Vipassana and Zazen, along with personal growth groups and individual therapy, were my life and I loved it!

After the initial awakening period, and to this day, because I am forever curious and interested in all things that lead to an embodied spirituality and assist inner work, I am influenced by:
Mindfulness Meditation, Direct Path Non-Dual teachings, Byron Katie’s “The Work”, Focusing, Shamanic journeying, Gabrielle Roth’s 5-Rhythms dance, Soul Singing, Family Constellations, Gestalt, Richard Rohr’s Christian Mysticism teachings, Diamond Approach, Authentic Relating (trained as facilitator), Inner Journey Institute, Intentional Conscious Community living, Circling, Honest Sharing…
and there is more but it seems too much to name it all – we live in such a rich time!